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Your mind matters! I often have people I meet who feel the need to apologize to me for not having created an estate plan before they met with me. Many times this comes from an older couple who realized that they should have planned sooner. I think I addressed that attitude in my last blog about putting things off until tomorrow, but I often … [Read more...]
I’ll Get To It Tomorrow
As a child, I watched the movie “Annie” where the little orphan Annie sings the lines: “Tomorrow, tomorrow. I love ya, tomorrow. You’re always a day away.” Annie is singing about how the sun will come out tomorrow, and that she will have brighter prospects for her life in the orphanage because of the sunny day that will come. However, she … [Read more...]
Where there’s no Will, There is a Way
When someone asks me, “Well, if I set things up right, I don’t even need a will or a trust, right?” I often wonder if the person asking the question wants an actual answer, or just wants me to agree with them. I think I understand what the person is asking, but I am not sure why someone would want me, an estate planning attorney, to simply agree … [Read more...]
Talk Among Yourselves: Why Professional Advisors Communicating Matters
Almost everyone has someone in their life who they look to for advice and guidance. Most people look at their parents this way (I certainly do!), but people also have other influential advisors -- whether it be a school teacher, church leader, business mentor or some other sort of influential advisor. These people help show us the way through … [Read more...]
How Often Should You Update Your Estate Plan?
Almost everyone with whom I work asks me how often they should review or update their estate plan. I don’t have a definitive answer for them, and I sometime I wonder if some people think there is a secret magic formula passes among lawyers to determine the answer to this question. (Spoiler Alert: There is no secret formula) I base this hunch on … [Read more...]
Protect Your Family: Powers of Attorney for Adult Children
After what sometimes seems like endless years spent raising a child, their adulthood—and all the rights that go with it—may creep up suddenly. When you are about to send a child off to college or to a study abroad program, you're probably busy with travel arrangements, last-minute shopping, packing, worrying about how your baby will fare living … [Read more...]
Protect Your Family: 12 Ways Power Of Attorney Protects You
“The Twelve Days of Christmas” is a popular song during the holidays, and often misunderstood to be the 12 days leading up to Christmas. The 12 days of Christmas are actually the 12 days after Christmas, leading up to Epiphany - or the day that the manifestation of Christ’s glory was realized - according to Christian tradition. In the spirit of … [Read more...]
ARE YOU SURE? THE WORST ESTATE PLANNING ADVICE YOU EVER HEARD
Everyone likes to feel knowledgeable and give advice. Unfortunately all of the advice that people give is not always all that good. I frequently meet people who have been given incorrect advice. Some of the most common well-intentioned, yet incorrect, advice I have heard is listed here. Have you ever heard anyone say something like this? … [Read more...]
How NOT to work with your estate planning attorney
How NOT to work with your estate planning attorney I think that I get along with most people. Exceptions seem to include people who treat my children poorly, or basketball coaches who forget how to talk to me when I referee basketball. Other than that, and a few people who seem to not like my sense of humor, I think I do pretty well at getting … [Read more...]
Why An Online Legal Service Might Not Be All That Helpful
I am often asked why people cannot go online to create their estate planning documents, and a lot of the time it feels like people want me to justify my existence as an estate planning attorney. Generally, people are looking for an inexpensive solution, and they think attorneys are expensive or unnecessary. Although I cannot claim the lowest price … [Read more...]
